Biography:Michael Kinsey
Michael Kinsey PhD | |
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| Education | The New School for Social Research (MA, PhD) Northwestern University (BA) |
Notable work | Deconstructing Narcissism: A Model of the Emotional Dynamics of the Narcissistic Personality Transcendent Parenting: A Workbook for Parent's Sharing Children with Narcissists |
| Awards | American Psychological Association Excellence in Psychology Award (2010) |
| Website | https://mindsplain.com |
Michael Kinsey is an American clinical psychologist, psychotherapist and author.[1][2] He is known for his work with parent-child attachment, personality psychology, and abusive power and control in interpersonal relationships.[1][2][3][4][5] He is also the founder and publisher of the psychology blog Mindsplain.[6][7]
Biography
Early life and education
He received his doctoral degree in clinical psychology from The New School for Social Research, where he was editor of The New School Psychology Bulletin from 2012 to 2013.[1][8] He was a postdoctoral fellow at Lenox Hill Hospital and Williamsburg Therapy Group in Brooklyn.[1][8]
He also trained in the World Trade Center Mental Health Program at Mount Sinai School of Medicine, The Bronx Lebanon Hospital Center, and the Baruch College Counseling Center.[1][8]
Career
He was awarded the American Psychiatric Association Excellence in Psychology Award in 2010.[1][2][9]
From 2013 to 2017, he taught several undergraduate and graduate psychology courses at The New School, including fundamentals in personality psychology, diagnostic assessment, and abnormal psychology.[9]
Kinsey is in private practice and is a staff psychologist at the Williamsburg Therapy Group.[1][8]
In 2021, Dr. Kinsey held a workshop on the topic of The Dynamics of the Narcissistic Personality in the Context of Coercive Control at America's Conference To End Coercive Control. The workshop was based on his Model of the Emotional Dynamics of the Narcissistic Personality.[9][4][5][10][11]
Theory
Emotional dynamics of pathological narcissism
In Kinsey's model, narcissism is a personality trait that exists on a continuum and does not manifest uniformly.[12] In its most extreme form, it may manifest as narcissistic personality disorder.[12]
Healthy narcissism
Kinsey postulates that healthy narcissism is the ability to invest love in oneself and other people.[12] It is neither exploitative nor harmful to self or others, whereas with narcissistic personality disorder love is self-directed only.[12]
He explains:
We’re not all narcissistic in the same way, or to the same degree, but we do all have narcissistic tendencies. Not only is self-absorption universal, it's also a vital aspect of health.[12]
Kinsey identifies the main attributes of healthy narcissism as:[12]
- Being able to admire others and accept admiration.
- Believing in the importance of your contributions.
- Feeling gratitude and appreciation not guilt.
- Empathizing with others but prioritize self.
- Embodying self-efficacy, persistence and resilience.
- Respecting the self in health habits and boundaries.
- Being confident in being seen.
- Tolerating other's disapproval.
- Creating goals and pursue them with desire.
- Being attentive to the external world.
- Being aware of emotions.
Works
Kinsey is the author of Transcendent Parenting: A Workbook for Parents Sharing Children with Narcissists and a children's book called Dreams of Zugunruhe.[1][13][14]
Articles
In 2021, his article What are Attachment Styles and How Do They Influence Adult Behavior appeared in Choosing Therapy.[1][15]
See also
- Attachment theory
- Child development
- Culture of Narcissism
- Healthy narcissism
- Narcissism
References
- ↑ 1.0 1.1 1.2 1.3 1.4 1.5 1.6 1.7 1.8 "Michael Kinsey, PhD – Biography". https://www.choosingtherapy.com/michael-kinsey/.
- ↑ 2.0 2.1 2.2 "Dr. Michael Kinsey, PhD, Psychologist". https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/michael-c-kinsey-new-york-ny/484043.
- ↑ Page, Danielle (August 21, 2020). "Avoidant Attachment Style: What It Means and How To Deal With It". https://www.askmen.com/dating/relationship_advice/avoidant-attachment-style-what-it-means-how-to-deal-with-it.html.
- ↑ 4.0 4.1 "2021 Program: Americas Conference to End Coercive Control". February 1, 2021. https://www.theacecc.com/2021program.
- ↑ 5.0 5.1 Kinsey, Michael (November 20, 2019). "Deconstructing Narcissism: A Model of Emotional Dynamics of the Narcissistic Personality". https://mindsplain.com/narcissistic-personality/.
- ↑ Pelley, Virginia (December 18, 2020). "How to Forgive Yourself: A Parent’s Guide to Letting Go of Failures". https://www.fatherly.com/love-money/how-to-forgive-yourself-advice/.
- ↑ "Mindsplain". https://mindsplain.com.
- ↑ 8.0 8.1 8.2 8.3 "Dr. Michael Kinsey, Ph.D.". https://williamsburgtherapygroup.com/meet-the-team/dr-michael-kinsey.
- ↑ 9.0 9.1 9.2 Kinsey, Michael C. (2019). "Mindsplain". https://mindsplain.com/michaelkinseyphd/.
- ↑ "How to Deal With a Stepchild That Is Difficult or Disrespectful". June 22, 2021. https://upjourney.com/how-to-deal-with-a-stepchild-that-is-difficult-or-disrespectful.
- ↑ Blumberg, Perri O. (December 21, 2020). "So, What Does It Mean When You Dream About Your Crush?". https://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/a34991091/dreams-about-your-crush/.
- ↑ 12.0 12.1 12.2 12.3 12.4 12.5 Kinsey, Michael (June 21, 2021). "Dear Survivors of Narcissistic Abuse: Own Your Healthy Narcissism!". https://mindsplain.com/healthy-narcissism/.
- ↑ Kinsey, Michael. "Dreams of Zugunruhe". https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B086WR1TQV/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_bibl_vppi_i0.
- ↑ Kinsey, Michael. "Transcendent Parenting: A Workbook For Parents Sharing Children With Narcissists". https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B08KH3T2ZC/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_bibl_vppi_i2#customerReviews.
- ↑ Kinsey, PhD, Michael (February 11, 2021). "What Are Attachment Styles & How Do They Influence Adult Behavior?". https://www.choosingtherapy.com/attachment-styles/.
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